Hello again. Thanks for clicking on my link. I'm answering another questionnaire when I
should really be sleeping or doing a zillion other things. I'm going to be doing Petal's
fifth questionnaire by Petal Baby. And it looks like there's actually a lot of questions
on this. So I'm going to try and get through them sort of quickly. We'll see how well that
goes though. And I'm going to try to not say um every three seconds like my last one, but
no promises about that. Okay, so the first question is, what is your love language? Examples,
words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, quality time, physical touch. My love language,
I guess, I usually show my appreciation for people by gifts, I guess. I wish that wasn't
how I show my appreciation. Like I tell them that I appreciate them as well. But when there's
someone I'm close to and I know their likes or dislikes, we have inside jokes, stuff like
that, then when I'm out and about shopping, whatever, if I see something that reminds
me of someone I'm close to, I almost always buy it. And it's never like a I expect something
in return sort of situation. I just really enjoy being like this reminded me of you and
I thought you had to have it. I do that with like crafty things too. A friend of mine that
doesn't live nearby, we share a love of Bob's burgers and I made her a dish set, I guess.
It was four plates, but they have the silhouettes of the characters from the show around the
rim underneath so she can actually use them as plates and sent those up to her. So stuff
like that. I guess I enjoy, I do enjoy like being close and everything as well, but I
guess it's my like go-to way to show I care about someone that I'm thinking about them.
Number two, how and when did you discover your favorite kink? If you're not kinky, how
did you find GWA? I think I've always just kind of been into sex in general. I don't
know that it's really a kink, just knowing what I like that I'm more submissive, just
kind of always known it. I think it's gonna be a really weird story and I hope it doesn't
come off as bad as I think it's about to come off. When I was younger, my mom was dating
this guy and we would go over to his place and he like openly left porn magazines just
like in the bathroom. So I think that even as a young age, like it was in front of me.
So I knew kind of early, I was exposed to it maybe a little earlier than I should have
been. I don't feel like I'm horribly scarred or anything like if that's what anyone is
thinking I'm not. That's just, I don't know, since an early age I've always been a fairly
sexual person and kind of know what I like. In terms of finding GWA, I honestly don't
remember how I found it. I'm really glad I did though. I thought maybe I was just kind
of like a weirdo who really was very auditory. So it's really great to find a place where
like there's a big community of people who enjoy just listening. Number three, what do
you wear to bed? That depends. Where I'm at the weather fluctuates a lot. So if it's very
hot out, whatever, then no clothes is great. That is fantastic. But in the winter no clothes
is a little too cold. So I do have just like pajama pants and tank tops and stuff. So I'll
wear those too. I don't really have like a pajama set or anything like that. It's just
like lounge wear. Four, where are you answering this questionnaire? I am sitting in my living
room. I'm on a recliner. I'm talking to my phone. So apologies if the sound quality is
bad or if I move the phone and it gets kind of funky. I noticed that on my last recording.
So apologies. There's also a fan blowing in my direction. So apologies if you hear that
as well. Number five, what is your favorite kind of soup? That's an interesting question.
I think my favorite kind of soups are either broccoli cheese soup or like a creamy wild
rice soup. Those are usually my favorites. Six, how do you pronounce the following words?
Caramel. Okay, here's a little caveat on that. The reason I say caramel is because there's
the second A in this. I've seen caramel spelled with just the first A and when it's spelled
that way I call it caramel. So depends on how I see the word. Usually in day to day
just talking I say caramel not caramel. Then data, route, pecan, aunt. As soon as I said
that I heard my own accent. Oh that's frustrating. Envelope, pajamas, crayon. Do people say crayon
different? Alright, I mean that's interesting. Moving on to number seven, would you have
sex with an identical twin version of yourself? No, I would not. I don't have a penis so I
don't want to have sex with me. Like that's just not really my thing. Nope. Number eight,
say your partner or a potential significant other is well versed in a certain subject
and you find that knowledge to be extremely sexy. What would this subject be? Good question.
What do I think is extremely sexy to know about? I think most knowledge is extremely
sexy to be fair. When anyone is very well versed in something I like that. My problem
is like don't be too overbearing with your knowledge I guess because there's so many
different kinds of knowledge that I don't have so I really do admire people who have
that knowledge that I don't. There's no way I'm ever going to know anything about particle
physics or many other things like auto mechanic stuff. You know all sorts of things. Coding,
there's so many things that I want to say and for the life of me I can't come out with
the words so honestly anything makes me happy. But I think that probably my favorite would
be if someone was well versed in literature. That's probably what would make me the happiest
or I would find the most sexy. Number nine, dating wise how old is too old for you and
how young is too young? I am 30 so too old for me is I have 40. Even like 38, 39 I think
is starting to push it a little bit and I don't know that I really have a problem with
how many years difference that is or if it's just that in my head I would like to pretend
that I'm younger than I am so I don't want to be thinking about being 40 when I'm barely
30. So I don't know if that's what my hangup on that is. In terms of how young is too young
I feel like I gravitate towards guys who are a little younger than me. I wish I didn't
because I don't really like that but that's just because I think most of my life I've
gravitated towards men who are older so now I'm going the other way and it's kind of weird.
So I think that around 25 I think is maybe my cut off for younger at the moment. Number
ten, has anyone ever told you you sound like someone else? Celebrity, cartoon character
or anyone else? Not necessarily that I sound like someone but I have a very similar personality
to Penelope Garcia on Criminal Minds. Very much so. Not the job I'm at now but the job
before that. I had like a cubicle and I had all of these little very colorful toys and
funky pens. I tend to wear brighter clothes. If anyone had any tech questions I usually
was the person they went to. So in general that's who I think I'm closest to. Eleven,
how old do you think your listeners think you are? Well I just told you how old I am
so I hope you all can get that question right. Twelve, are you a picky eater? What will you
absolutely not eat and is there a food that you like most other people do not? I don't
think I'm that picky but I'm not not picky. I don't like mushrooms. I wish I did. I don't
mind things that are like mushroom based like a lot of sauces that are cooked with mushrooms.
I don't mind that part of them. I don't like eating the actual mushrooms. It's like a texture
thing. I just think they're icky. I also have an issue with tomatoes which is another sort
of texture thing. I don't mind if the tomato has been cored out and like all the seeds
have been scraped out. My biggest issue with them is the tomato gooey gut part. I don't
like that. I can't just like pop a cherry tomato in my mouth. That's disgusting. I also
don't eat seafood so this makes me sound like a much pickier eater than I think I am. Seafood
thing, I choked on a fish bone when I was young and it was like a fish patty that you
wouldn't think a bone was in so ever since then like when I was young I just avoided
it because I didn't want to choke again because it was painful and traumatic and whatever
whatever. That was a very long time ago. I have tried fish many many times since then
and I used to like it when I was younger. I do not like it now. I don't even like fried
fish. I went to England when I was in high school on a trip and first night there we
had fish and chips and we didn't have a choice like you had fish and chips or you had nothing
and so I really tried. I couldn't do it. I could only eat like the very ends that were
mostly breading and no fish. I've recently tried to start trying other seafoods. Scallops
I think are disgusting and shrimp is okay. I can handle shrimp but it has to be done
a certain way I think basically like smothered in butter and garlic preferably. Lobster is
okay crab legs are alright but in general I really don't do the seafood very often at
all. I usually avoid it but what I like that I think other people don't like certain vegetables
I like a lot. I like beets. I recently had a cousin who went out to eat somewhere and
I got a side of beets and she was horrified because she said they taste like dirt and
I think they are delicious. I also really like Brussels sprouts. I think people are
more accepting of Brussels sprouts now but I feel like a few years ago everyone hated
them so maybe we've all just learned to appreciate them. I don't know. I understand it though
because they're just mini cabbage. Alright number 13 is there a certain country, culture
or time period you're fixated on and would you like to learn more about? I guess there's
a lot of them that I'm I don't know if fixated is the right word but intrigued by. I very
much like Italian culture and Greek. I would really love to go there someday. There's so
much history and everything there and I would love to see all that but I would feel very
touristy and I don't like that part of it. I also would really like to go back to the
UK and in terms of time period I don't know that there's one I'm fixated on but I feel
like most things I like are Victorian time period but maybe that's just because we have
really good shows that make that seem like a good time period and I would probably actually
hate it. Alright 14 can you comfortably go the rest of your life without falling in love?
Tough question in the middle of this survey. I don't know if comfortably I could. I feel
like my standards are pretty low and I kind of expect to not find it but I would prefer
to. I don't know I think it's hard to meet someone genuinely. I've tried the online dating
thing and I don't care for it. There's very few people that I find that I connect with
like I really want to. The best connections I've made have been from working places and
meeting people that way but now I work for a place where there's almost no men at all
so I don't foresee meeting anyone that way anymore and I live in a different area than
I used to so all of that combined and I don't like going to bars. I don't know that I really
expect to find it but I would prefer to. I would be more comfortable with someone than
without. Well that's kind of depressing. Is there something better? I hope there's some
more uplifting questions coming. Do you prefer blue skies or gray skies? I prefer gray I
guess. Blue is very pretty but I feel like my favorite days are kind of overcast or they're
blue skies but it's hard to explain. When it's blue skies but it's raining but it's
the kind of rain that's just like a gentle mist and it just lasts for a little while
and then moves on. That's actually my favorite. 16. What were your favorite shows as a child?
Are we talking like cartoons when I was little? Because then I really liked Looney Tunes.
That was my favorite. I liked Power Rangers a lot too. Captain Planet. I think I watched
Gargoyles a lot too. I can't remember anything about Gargoyles but I liked it. And X-Men.
I feel like I liked a lot of cartoons. Yeah. 17. What is your favorite protein? Meat or
if you're vegan like beans or soy? My favorite is probably, not probably, it's chicken. I
like other meats but I think that chicken is just more versatile and I guess by versatile
I mean chicken by itself is much more bland than other meats and it lends itself well
to other flavors. So I guess that's my favorite. And I feel like it's the least fatty. I hate
that meat like on steaks and stuff. I cut that off and I don't eat it. 18. Are you interested
in true crime? Oh so much yes. Like a lot of women, I don't know why we have this fascination
but I think a lot of women do. Maybe some men too but I feel like mostly it's been women
that I've come across. I have sort of a fascination with serial killers. Not like in a I want
to be one or I want to know one sort of way. Just I'm very, very into that whole like what
makes them tick, what did they do sort of stuff. Yeah. So definitely interested in true
crime. 19. What are your hard limits sexually? My hard limits are right now, currently, because
I feel like they could change. So I don't know if that makes them a hard limit then.
I have done, I've only done anal one time and it was with someone who wasn't a very
good partner and they didn't listen very well. And it was fine. It wasn't anything bad or
traumatic or whatever but it's definitely something that's made me think about if I
do it again, that when I do it again, I want it to be with someone that I trust more and
just have a better connection and understanding with and that if I say I don't want to do
something that they will listen. So there's that. So it's not really a hard limit just
like there's things that I'm definitely willing to try but it has to be with the right people
person. Other things that might be limits, definitely no like pedophilia stuff, no bestiality.
I had a guy once ask me if he would let his or if I would let his dog fuck me. The answer
is no and that's no. I just can't do that. 20. Do you like reality television? Not really.
I like cooking shows if that counts as reality television but like do not expect me to watch
anything with the Kardashians. Even shows like Survivor. I don't really care for that
either. I like some cooking shows, not all of them. In general, no. I prefer fiction.
21. What do you think of pegging? I have conflicting ideas on pegging. I think that if it's something
you and your partner are comfortable with that's great and you should definitely embrace
that as part of your relationship. I think that it's probably nice to not always have
to be the dominant person and I think that's a lot of what pegging really entails is letting
yourself be in a different role than what we normally are in. I don't know that it's
something, it's not something I am currently interested in but if it's something that a
partner was interested in then I would have to evaluate it a little further but in general
I don't feel like I'm a huge fan of it just because I don't know that it's something that
I would really really feel comfortable with because I'm just so much more of a submissive
personality so I don't know that I would be able to take the dominant role that intensely.
Maybe I would. I've just never been in that situation. 22. How would you describe how
adults ask each other out on dates or for relationships versus how kids do it?
Well kids are always just a little more honest about everything. If we're talking like little
kids, I don't understand where the line between adults and kids are in this question because
I mean are we talking like when you're in kindergarten and a little kid walks up to
you and says do you want to be my girlfriend and you say yes and you're boyfriend and girlfriend
for 3 hours or are we talking older kids like teenagers in which case I don't know if they're
asking out and the adults version of asking out is much different at this point. Everything's
been very taken over by technology and because of that there's so many just vague aspects
of relationships right now. I think there's very few times where it's clear cut that you're
in a relationship now. Like it's very rarely known by both parties if you are or are not
in a relationship. I think that's rough. 23. This is a weird transition. Okay so 23. Do
you like raw onions in your food? It has nothing to do with relationships other than maybe
this is a deal breaker for you. But I do like raw onions on my food. Also cooked onions.
Whatever. 24. Can you curl your pinky without moving your ring finger? Based on me trying
it right now. Probably not. Oh I can. I can with my left hand. But not with my right.
Which is funny because I'm right handed. So I also feel like my right pinky is permanently
bent. I used to play the flute and anyone who has played before you have to keep your
pinky down on that key like always. So I didn't play the flute for very long but I feel like
it fucked up my pinky. I don't know how that's even possible or if I made that up maybe my
pinky has always been funky shaped. I don't know. 25. When sleeping next to a partner
do you prefer full on cuddling, touching a little bit or not touching at all? Touching
a little bit. I do enjoy a full on cuddle but I think full on cuddling is difficult
to maintain or maneuver around when you're sleeping with someone. I prefer being in the
same bed. If we're not touching at all I can make do with that but touching a little bit
is my preferred. 26. Do you shop at Costco or any membership based shopping center? I
do not. I feel like everyone around me has a Costco membership. I do not. And I have
a hard time paying someone money to spend more money at their store. Although now that
I'm thinking about it I have no problem paying for an Amazon Prime membership but really
it's because I'm paying for the convenience of them delivering shit to me. Sort of the
same but not. 27. What is a sexy scenario you fantasize about but literally cannot happen
for you in real life? Examples, medieval stuff, furry stuff, being a high school student again,
talking to a 50 foot tall woman, etc. I guess I do have one fantasy. It's more like a paranormal
sort of situation. The idea of being used by a ghost. I don't think that could ever
really really happen. Not in the way it plays out in my head anyway. But the idea of it
I enjoy. 28. What's a fashion trend of your youth that you find absolutely atrocious now?
There's so many things. The 90s was rough. So many things. Scrunchies. I don't like scrunchies.
I feel like they're trying to make a comeback really hard and it's hard for me to get past
the 90s-ness of them. What else? Oh mom jeans. Everyone wore mom jeans and they were just
not, I don't think they were very attractive on anyone. The leg fit is no good. I went
to a restaurant one day and a bunch of the waitresses were all wearing legit mom jeans
from the 90s. They were these girls who were younger than me waitressing and then they
were wearing shirts that had the restaurant logo on them. But it wasn't everybody. So
I was like, is this part of some new thing or did they just decide they were going to
wear mom jeans today? I don't understand. Oh also those platform boots. Oh Spice Girls.
Those are pretty rough. 29. What is your favorite accent? Also please best describe the quality
of a voice that would really draw you in. My favorite accents are usually English, Scottish
or Irish. Australians good too. I think those are my favorite. Yeah. I feel like even in
terms of audiobooks and things my favorite narrators have those accents. And the quality
of a voice that would really draw me in. I'm generally drawn to deeper voices. They don't
have to always be deeper but it's a good start. But not too much like the movie phone guy.
It's hard. I feel like it's hard to describe what I enjoy in a voice. Yeah kind of the
slower drawly sex voice. I enjoy that too. 30. Do you keep things formal between you
and your listeners simply thanking them for listening to your audios or do you flirt back
sometimes? I flirt back sometimes. Not always. It depends on what I'm doing at the moment.
Sometimes I get messages and I don't respond to them so apologies if that's happened. Yeah
depends on where I'm at and what the conversations are. I mean if you say something real creepy
I'm not going to encourage you so there's that. But I definitely don't mind being flirty
at all or even really getting friendly when it comes down to that. I like getting to know
people especially from other cultures and stuff. 31. Do you mind receiving pet names
from strangers? That depends. If it's someone that I've literally never seen or spoken to
before I don't really enjoy it. If it's someone that I've talked to at least a couple times
then I don't mind at all. Yeah I guess that's the best way to describe it. I had a waiter
at a restaurant just call me sweetie or hun like every sentence and it would have been
fine if he was just one of those people who called everyone that. But I was there at that
restaurant with my mom and he hadn't said it once but she had to leave and then I was
paying the bill and as soon as she left is when he started with the pet names and it
just creeped me the hell out. So yeah I definitely have to talk to them for a little while before
you can give me a pet name. 32. What are some facial features a person can have that you
would find exceptionally striking? Strong jaw lines? I guess I'm very drawn to. And
this isn't a facial feature but I definitely have a thing for gingers. It's not a thing
that I haven't heard many women say that they really like redheaded men but I do. I don't
know why and it's not something that like I ever would have been yeah that's my favorite
hair color or anything. I just sort of took a step back and evaluated people that I have
found attractive in my life. A large percentage end up being tall redheaded men. Oh I'm sorry
I can't talk. Other facial features I guess. I do enjoy some facial hair as well. 33. Can
you count how many sexual partners you've had on all of your fingers? How about on all
of your toes? Fingers and toes. On my fingers? No. Fingers and toes? Yes. 34. Have you spoken
to your favorite poster on GWA already? I guess I would say currently yes. I haven't
really browsed around a lot. I feel like every time I've had a favorite I've talked to them
so yeah. I've talked to my favorite every time I have one. So whenever I find anyone
I will probably talk to them as well and I definitely encourage you to talk to me. Thanks
for making it through another questionnaire especially because I don't really post very
much in GWA so it's nice for you to listen to my backstage thing. I hope you have a good
evening and hopefully I will hear from some of you. Alright bye.
